Jan 2006

2006. Is it a good year? It is too early to judge. But it is off to a bad start. Within weeks of the new year, I have already received news of 2 breakup. One of them already married. The other pair have been together for almost 11 years.

What is wrong with relationship among male and female Singaporeans? Why am I hearing so many breakup? Is the social climate not right to forge a long lasting relationship? Or is it simply the genes that are left dormant in the male species awakening?

As a species, there is this encode behavious to try to protect the speciecs from the fate of extinction. And to do so is to spread ones genes as wide as possible so that at least some will survive. To do that is: to procreate and to have as many offsprings as possible. This will improve the chances of having the genes pass on to the future generation. This is true to almost all species on earth. National Geographics did mentioned some unique situtation among some creatures but that slip my mind at the moment.

I am not trying to give an excuse but this is a fact. It is natural. Another term will be Darwin-ism or Evoulution.

Communication is the key. Miscommunication happen all the time. Learn how to correct them would probably be the key. Overcoming our pride and ego is another. When you are wrong you are wrong. Lawyers do not help.

Man are from Mars. Woman are from Vennus. But we are here on Earth. They concregate.

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